Shapewear Shenanigans!!!!!

Okay. I’m a fluffy woman. I admit it. I’ve started to cut back on my snacking of junk food and I admit, I’m pretty good. Now, don’t get me wrong, it’s hard. I’m determined to lose this weight and lower my a1c. However, until then, I need some good shapewear. I’m weighing in at 270 and I’m 5’7″. My butt, thighs and boobs are where my weight is. I wear a size 44H bra size and 20W-22W pants & dress size. I say all of that to say this. I need great shapewear with serious support. I have spent so much money, only to be disappointed with ripped, frayed and stretched out material. I need to create my own shapewear line. I need the following:

  • Durable, breathable fabric
  • High waisted or straps to cover my back overflow
  • Reinforced durable fabric on the inner thighs to stop my thighs from rubbing together
  • Long in length to the knee or just below the knee so there is no mid thigh bulging or lines.
  • And let’s not forget tummy control..with some magic grip that keeps it from rolling down.

Now, I don’t think, I’m asking for too much. We( the fluffy, glorious size women) need to design our own shapewear. And another thing, why are there small, non-plus size women modeling plus size shapewear. Just stop it!! I feel we dont have a good representation…I see Lane Bryant, The Avenue and Ashley Stewart have some real life size model. And I love it!! However the shapewear is taking care of my problem areas!! Now, last night, I across Divas Curves(, all I can say is thank you Lord!!!. I have placed my order and expecting great things. I will be posting my review and I can’t wait to get my shapewear. I ordered the knee length one. So until I get smaller and toned, I need this in my life. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m definitely not saying that smaller size woman’s don’t have shapewear issues. I’m just speaking about my own experience and these are just my opinions. Thanks for listening


Red Tea Detox

Okay..has anyone ever heard this red tea detox? I have been reading aloy of positive reviews about it. Here is one of them

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Hey everyone,
I couldn’t wait to tell everyone about my experience with the Red Tea Detox from Liz Swann
This stuff really works! I’m down 11 pounds, and I’ve only been drinking this amazing tea for
14 days.
Since having twins last year, I’ve really struggled to get back to my pre‐baby body, and to
be honest, it’s been a real drag. I’ve felt sluggish, depressed, completely un‐sexy and my
relationship with my husband has suffered. When you’re stuck at home with two new borns,
it’s pretty hard to find time for healthy eating let alone any form of exercise, and I’d pretty
much resigned myself to being a size 16 for the rest of my life.
When my sister sent me the link to the Red Tea Detox from Liz Swann Miller, I gotta say, I
was a little sceptical. My junk mail is always being flooded with so called “miracle diets” and
scammy products that demand a heap of money up front.
However, when I was told the story about Liz Swann Miller and her amazing journey being a
mom, I gotta say, I felt like I related. Not only that, the background story of the secret African
tea recipe really piqued my interest, and I was desperate to know more.
Well, I can say I’m so glad I signed up! Not only is the story fascinating, but the tea really
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My relationship with Bill…

Revealed: The Secrets our Clients Used to Earn $3 Billion

Ok, I’ve been in this toxic relationship with Bill for most of my adult life. I got involved with him by helping others or wanting more things that I can afford.  Bill comes to visit me almost day or at least monthly. I will get rid of him for a few months, but he always finds his way back to me. I hate him but I love the instant gratification. I have been looking into to ways to rid my life of him. I can say one thing about Bill, he is very faithful, and he is always around even when I want him to be. I have allowed him to suck the life out of me, and he has even cause arguments between me and my spouse. I have prayed that he leaves me alone. I hate that he is attracted to me. He isn’t adding to my life, he is shortening my life. He is depressing and sometimes, I don’ want to even leave the house. I will continue seek ways to rid my life of him. Can someone please help me?

Sugar Addiction

I think I’m a addict……, I have been away for a while, and I apologize. Life showed its ugly head and I lose some loves ones due to cancer and heart attacks. It’s so terrible. I kept telling myself that I don’t want to leave this earth due to food and a bad life style. My name is Tonya and I’m addicted to sugar and bad carbs. I’ve tried stop and it seems impossible. My sister started the Keto Diet Journey and looks amazing. She has diabetes and her physician has cut her medication in 1/2. It’s not easy but she is determined. My other sister has digestive issues and has chosen a gluten-free lifestyle and she also looks amazing. She isn’t loving it but, it’s a choice between gluten free or painful days. So that choice is easy. Even my mom is diabetic and she has chosen to limit her carbs and avoid eating after 6pm and looks great and she will be celebrating her 70th birthday in February. I guess what, I’m trying to say, is, we have a choice. Everyone has free will, everyone has to get to their breaking point. I’m addicted and it’s said to say, but it seem impossible for me to stop eating so many kinds of junk. I wonder if I need therapy, medication, meditation, etc. How many love ones do I need to lose, to get it together?